I am actually reposting this with names taken out
Ok so for those of you who have asked me what the heck is going on, I have decided to sit down and write it all out. So be prepared that this is more than likely going to be VERY long.
When I first came to work at _______’s on the AFB last December I was told by one of the Supervisors, P, who to watch out for and who I could trust. She told me to watch out for J because she lies and L because she was just an all around trouble maker and didn't like anyone. After a few months P transferred and so I was left "to gather my own conclusions". I, by nature, am a very loving person and can get along with usually everyone. So I befriended these two girls. J and L were in turn friends with each other. Then one day J was telling me about her adventures out the night before with L. She told me that she and L had gotten drunk and were with some "friends" and that L was flirting with other men (L is married and has a child). Then while I was in the back doing dishes J came to me & told me that I missed seeing the guys she was with the night before. A few hours later J was upset with L for one reason or another so I told her to be friendly with L but not be friends. Then L came to me upset telling me that J was a liar, that she never went out with her and that she would never flirt with someone other than her husband. And also that the guys that J told me that I missed had no clue who she was. So I was on my guard about J, but apparently not enough. A few days/weeks/months later (I can't remember the time frame) J told me that she was engaged. I was really happy for her but I noticed over the next few hours how she didn’t seem excited about being engaged & when she was asked by customers how she was, she didn’t tell them her "good news" and when I tried to hint that she was really happy, she had no clue what I was talking about. Then one day I told J about a guy that I had befriended that I thought was really cute and that we were flirting with each other. The next day L asked me about my boyfriend. I was a little upset that she had told someone so fast but I explained to L the situation. Then L proceeds to tease me all day that she doesn’t think my friend is real, that he was just pretend & that she would give me $100.00 if he showed up. The next day I was tired of her teasing so I didn’t even let her start. I was very abrupt with her & told her that I wasn’t going to play her stupid little game. She got offended that I was upset with her, so I explained that I didn’t want to talk about it with her anymore. A few days later J came to me & told me that L was talking smack about me. I tried to confirm this with my other coworkers & came to the conclusion that L was in fact talking crap about me. So for MONTHS I hated L. In August J told me that her fiancé had raped her. I stopped what I was doing, took her by the shoulders and told her that she needed to tell the cops & if she didn’t, I would. Almost immediately she began to back peddle, giving lame excuses; she had a car contract with him, she didn’t have anywhere else to go, her mother didn’t believe her and that if she went to the cops, her mother wouldn’t talk to her ever again. I decided to let it go, telling her she was crazy because she was still with him. Finally L came back from vacation & I cleared things up with her (or so I thought). J’s “incident” was whispered around until my Manager came to me & told me not to believe everything I heard. I asked if she was talking about J & she said yes. She also explained that this had supposedly happened before and that she had come into work with a black eye. Everyone was so concerned for her that they went to Human Recourses & when everyone sat down & confronted her, she denied ever saying anything at all. So I was done with J at that point and started to pull away from our acquaintance. She kept saying that I was such a good friend & was glad that we were friends; all the while I kept thinking that we weren’t friends because real friends are tried, tested and found true. She was tried, tested and found severely lacking. Then I was presented with an out. I found out that another place was hiring, I talked to the Manager but she had already finished hiring. So I told her that I was interested for when she needed to hire next & that if she needed help with cakes I could help. About a month and a half went by and she approached me, telling me she still needed help and wondered if I was still interested. ABSOLUTELY! I had to wait another month and a half before I was transferred. I have been at this new place for about 3 weeks now and absolutely LOVE it! I called P and told her the good news. We chit chatted and she told me how J had come to her and said that she was tired of all the crap that was happening at _______'s and wanted to find another job. P stopped her and told her that the drama at _______’s was all her fault and that she lies to hurt people and to keep me out of it. P asked me if J had told me that they had spoken, she hadn’t. That night I was on Myspace when J sent me a message asking how I was doing, to which I responded that I was really happy. She then told me that she wished she could come work with me. I decided right then and there to confront her. I responded with “No room. Plus I talked to P. I know everything so let’s just let your stories go.” And logged off immediately. J hasn’t responded, as far as I know. Yesterday, after I got home from work I deleted & blocked her from my Facebook. The following happened:
(my status): AHHH! It’s good to be rid of liars. Now if only I didn't work in the same building as them. At least I'm FB free, right?
L wrote: “look who talking. if you dont want to work f&^% quit dont came to say rid of liars because work wth you before so becafull au you talk? and you have lazy shop wat you really want and i am going to show all people in ______'s au fake whare you"
{Rough Translation}
Look who’s talking? If you don’t want to work F*&^%$# quit. Don’t say those who you worked with you before are liars and that you’re rid of them, so be careful how you talk! And you have a lazy store, what do you really want? And I’m going to tell everyone at ______’s how fake you are.I wrote: Ok FIRST of all L if you’re going to try to cuss me out LEARN HOW TO SPELL! SECOND of all DO NOT SWEAR on my profile! THIRD of all I had NO PROBLEM with you or anyone else at ______'s except for J and YOU KNOW THAT! What I was saying is that I deleted her from my friends and blocked her so I wouldn't have to keep putting on a smile whenever I see her and pretend to care. FOURTHLY I know for a FACT that everyone at ______'s DOESN'T LIKE YOU because YOU are a JERK! You are mean and talk about EVERYONE! So even IF you did try to tell "everyone at ______'s how 'fake' I am", they already know that you’re just a sad little person who doesn't even *like* HERSELF! And you know what I like MOST about my new job? The LACK of DRAMA! I L.O.V.E. my new job because I don't have to deal with people like YOU and J! You need to GROW UP! AND you shouldn't have been so offended about this post if you had been truthful with me. Sounds to ME like you've lied to me too! The truth must hurt, doesn't it?!
A.R.: Well I certainly hope your new job hires employees with a much higher literacy rate than the last...good gracious it looks like that little girl attempted to type in another language or something. Clearly she needs to be removed as well, what a yucky person! Anyway, where is your new job at? :D
I wrote: She's from Portugal I think and so yes she did try to type in another language plus she tried to type slang so it was a train wreck. And it doesn't matter with the AF. Just as long as your background clears. But I’m still on base at RH which I L.O.V.E :D
S.H.: I agree with A to the T!
I wrote: Thank you :)
A.R.: I was just there but R.H. was closed :( Columbus Day Hahahahaa
When I got up this morning my parents said that they heard that I was mad at someone and wanted to know what was going on. I decided to get online and show them. Everything that L had posted was gone, at first I thought she had deleted them but she had deleted me from her friends. But I still had email alerts so I read to them what had happened. Then L sent me a message =
L:October 15 at 7:31am look dont talk about me to your friends , if i was try tape another linguage you dont endertensde because you so estupid, grow up you look loke child and yes my background very clean ,and you need endertensde this its not my linguage , i still learning , have your live and have my ? but dont talk s$#%
{Rough Translation}
Look, don’t talk about me to your friends. I was trying to type in another language, you don’t understand because you’re so stupid. Grow up, you look like a child and yes my background is very clean. And you need to understand that this isn’t my first language, I’m still learning. You have your life and I’ll have mine! But don’t talk s%!^I replied: October 15 at 9:29am Well isn't that the pot calling the kettle black
L: October 15 at 9:39am Report just leave me alone ok
I replied: October 15 at 9:46am Oh I will. But understand that you are the one that started this.
L: October 15 at 9:47am Report ok wat you going do about tell bossses?
{RT}
Ok. What are you going to tell to the managers?I replied: October 15 at 10:11am Do we really need to say anything? I wasn't planning on it. Let’s just leave each other alone.
After this was sent, I blocked her and made a copy of everything. J still seems clueless to the whole thing. Whatever – I am so DONE with those two! And now you know everything!
OH and a little side note; I passed on P's advice to EVERYONE who was hired after me. :D
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If only it had been that simple. L reported me the next day and J still didn't know until she called me and asked if I had deleted her. I explained but she didn't understand what I was saying. About a month ago she fainted at work and was taken away on a stretcher. I don't think I've seen her since.
